But what are you doing ?
Honestly, I’m really curious what is your excuse? How do you justify the fact of having given birth to children and then having abandoned them?
No child deserves to be heartbroken by a physically or emotionally absent parent. I do not understand. I don’t understand how you can look at yourself in the mirror.
How on earth can you wake up in the morning and go about your business knowing that half of you are running around the world without you being there to kiss it?
How on earth can you smile knowing that you are, in fact, one of the most disgusting humans on the planet?
You have helped to create a life, one human life that is unique and different from all the others. The worst part about it all is that you don’t care.
You have no interest in the love of your child. But still, you smile like nothing has happened.
You smile ear to ear knowing that you have escaped the most difficult job a human can do on this planet.
Wipe that smile off your face because you are garbage. Only garbage lets others raise their children.
I hope that the day you are finally ready to spend time with your children, they will move away from you like you have moved away from them.
No child deserves to be abandoned. No child deserves to live in the confusion of loneliness. You ruined the life of someone you didn’t even take the time to love.
You don’t deserve to be a parent. You don’t even deserve the privilege of looking at the photos of the lives you’ve created. In fact, you do not have the right to give yourself the title of parent.
After all, you are completely absent from the lives of your children, so why would you have the right to brag about having it?
There are many ways to disappoint a child.
One thing should be clear: just because you live with your child doesn’t mean you have the right to see yourself as a good parent. Yes, fathers and mothers who literally abandon their children are the worst.
Those who turn their backs on their offspring to live a conspicuous celibate life are selfish and toxic people. And if you are one of those people, I sincerely pity you.
Warning ! I am not talking about parents who were forced to abandon their children because of financial or medical problems. Of course, in some situations the best thing you can do for a child’s sake is to allow them to live a better life with someone else.
No, here I am talking about parents who voluntarily turn their backs on their children in order to party, escape their obligations and not have to take care of them.
But parents who physically abandon their children are not the only cowards. Those who abandon them emotionally are no better.
You live with your children, but do you take care of them?
Being under the same roof as your children does not make you a good parent. How many times have I seen dads come home from work to slump on the couch and watch TV ?!
Their kids play around, call out to them and claim their attention, but nothing… They don’t even get a kind word. Emotionally absent parents neglect the psychological well-being of their children.
They don’t support them, give them no proof of love, and don’t encourage them to learn, grow and make their own decisions.
And I do not even dare to mention the abuses which are unfortunately far too present in our society. Physical and psychological violence against children is the scourge of our society.
And if the current pandemic has proven one thing to us, it is that the abuses are much more numerous than we think. Indeed, being confined has exacerbated everyone’s worst character traits.
Your children just need your love.
Emotionally absent or abusive moms also exist. Oh yes… Take my word for it. The other day in the park, I watched a woman spank her son monumental. Why ?
Because he got his pants dirty while playing in the grass. I was shocked by the violence of his behavior and his angry look. The worst part of it all was that this kid literally hadn’t done anything.
He hadn’t played, he had just walked in the grass and his pants had turned a little green. The fear in his eyes was terrifying.
As a mom, you need to hug your children and assure them that you are there to protect them. They should feel safe with you. And they need to know that you are supporting them no matter what.
Yesterday, my neighbor came to visit me with her son. When I asked the 10-year-old boy what he wanted to do later, he replied: « pilot ».
His mother burst out laughing and said to him: « You are as stupid as your father, so you can never be a pilot ». Truly ? Without shame or embarrassment, she threw those words at him.
Parents consciously destroy their children.
He hadn’t played, he had just walked in the grass and his pants had turned a little green. The fear in his eyes was terrifying.
As a mom, you need to hug your children and assure them that you are there to protect them. They should feel safe with you. And they need to know that you are supporting them no matter what.
Yesterday, my neighbor came to visit me with her son. When I asked the 10-year-old boy what he wanted to do later, he replied: « pilot ».
His mother burst out laughing and said to him: « You are as stupid as your father, so you can never be a pilot ». Truly ? Without shame or embarrassment, she threw those words at him.
Parents consciously destroy their children.
Your physical or emotional absence, your abuse and your indifference are the founding stones in the lives of your children. By behaving in this way, you make sure you create toxic or emotionally unstable adults.
And you can live with that? I do not understand that a parent can consciously harm their child. Why have children if you don’t intend to cherish and love them?
Maybe you had a difficult childhood yourself, but that doesn’t justify anything. On the contrary, you should have learned from your parents’ mistakes so as not to repeat them.
This innocent being did not ask to be born. You have made the choice to have children, so take care of them. If you feel like you are overwhelmed by the situation, ask for help out of pity.
It’s never too late to put things right. You can change and provide a warm, loving home for your child. So ask friends or a professional for help.
For your good, but above all for the good of your children.
And if you don’t want to change and if you think your education is the best, because your children will be “warriors” who can get away with it no matter what, you are a lost cause.
I hope your children leave your home as soon as possible, without looking back and without worrying about you. With any luck, they will succeed in building a healthy life.
In that case, I hope the world ends up screwing you up like you screwed up your own children’s lives.
